Rethinking Paranoia

Rethinking Paranoia

Paranoia is one of the most stigmatized symptoms of complex trauma.  It is often viewed as a sign of a serious mental illness.  But the reality of paranoia is different.  It is everywhere.  I believe childhood trauma makes it a guarantee.  Paranoia can be so many...
Translating Self-Help

Translating Self-Help

6 Popular Phrases Translated for Trauma Survivors In this work, I have met people who have tried many healing modalities.  Let’s face it.  We are all looking for a way to feel better.  We are tired of the physical, emotional and mental exhaustion coming from complex...
The Essential Drives

The Essential Drives

Love, Peace and Purpose This week, I achieved a huge milestone in my life.  I have wanted to be an author since I published my first poem in a kid’s magazine at 8 years old.  Monday, I released my first book.  When I started this journey, I thought the hard part would...
The Power Shift

The Power Shift

Sometimes I give in to my inner child and check up on the old family members.  Social media allows for such things, and I am not sure if that is good or bad.  And the decision to check up on them (although very infrequently) comes with a ton of self-ridicule.  “Why do...
An Inner Conversation

An Inner Conversation

I often work with clients to embody their inner parts and allow them to express. This is instrumental to the healing process. When we allow those parts to express, we allow those past emotions to release. It may feel backwards or illogical, but that is how it works....