How Time Keeps Us Stuck

How Time Keeps Us Stuck

They say time heals all wounds.  I hate that phrase.  I hate it because it is a lie and it messes with our heads.  It was created by the collective controller to give us false hope that doing nothing but living out the years will somehow miraculously heal us.  Nope. ...
When Boundaries Seem Impossible

When Boundaries Seem Impossible

It is not surprising that boundaries are the things we struggle with most.  It is not shocking because we grew up in a world that told us our boundaries didn’t matter.  We lived with people who made irrelevant our opinions and interests.  They controlled what we did. ...
How Control Works

How Control Works

Apparently, I sent an unusual email to a client the other day.  I was referring to a new understanding about an inner part and how they were impacted by my dad.  The client wrote back and said, “There’s a word I don’t ever hear you say: ‘dad’.”  I was a little...
When Fear Rules

When Fear Rules

When it comes to how we live our lives, we won’t get very far without feeling our fear.  It might be different levels of fear depending on our experiences, but we are all going to have it.  And while most people understand this intellectually, it is not really...