The Reality of Fear

The Reality of Fear

There is no single emotion that drives our world today, but if I had to choose the most impactful, I would choose fear.  Fear is the most prevalent emotion on this planet and most of our decision making is driven by it.  But we don’t know this is happening.  We don’t...
The Isolator: Navigating Relationships after Trauma

The Isolator: Navigating Relationships after Trauma

I’ve been working with some intense battles in my system lately.  I have a tendency to focus on my defenders when I am feeling blocked and I often discuss them in my writing.  To be fair, the defender fears of recovery and change are not the only inner obstacles we...
Not This Time

Not This Time

Depression is a global problem and it is affecting many more people than we think.  And it is powerful in its impact on us.  It stops us in our tracks.  It keeps us from our purpose and goals in life.  It changes the way we see the world.  It disconnects us from the...
Instead of Resolutions

Instead of Resolutions

It’s resolution time, but I’m not a big fan of resolutions.  The idea of resolutions was most certainly created by a controller-enmeshed society who wants to constantly chase goals.  It is a great distraction from our inner pain.  It keeps us running and fighting and...