Doing Nothing at All

Doing Nothing at All

I’m a control freak.  I am not talking about the kind of control freak that people secretly love because she will get everything done so they don’t have to.  I am talking about the kind of control freak people run from because they know there will be casualties.  I...
Healing in Community

Healing in Community

What the Abusers Don’t Want When we go through trauma in childhood, our interpretation can take one of two extremes.  It can all seem so random.  It can make us feel like the most unlucky people on the planet.  How could so many bad things happen to one child?  In...
“Jacked Up”

“Jacked Up”

I have mentioned before that I am not in charge of this journey.  There is something comforting and completely terrifying about that.  In reality, my ego self (adult self) could never be in charge of this journey.  I would not know how to do it or where to start. ...
Own What Is Yours

Own What Is Yours

I have been triggered today.  While I don’t normally write blog posts from this place (unless they are written by parts), I feel I have an obligation to sound a wake up call when it comes to generational trauma.  I feel a strong desire to write this despite...