The Convenient Solution

The Convenient Solution

I watched Troop Zero the other night.  At the end, I cried and cried.  I cried more than I normally do.  I’m not a crier.  I never felt safe enough to cry.  I did love the story.  It was a great movie.  The main character was a little girl in a very difficult...
Instead of Resolutions

Instead of Resolutions

It’s resolution time, but I’m not a big fan of resolutions.  The idea of resolutions was most certainly created by a controller-enmeshed society who wants to constantly chase goals.  It is a great distraction from our inner pain.  It keeps us running and fighting and...
The Attack on the Outgoing

The Attack on the Outgoing

I hear it often from my clients.  “I’m quiet.”  “I’ve always been an introvert.”  “I just don’t have much to say.”  “I used to talk too much but I matured, and I don’t do that anymore.”  There seems to be a general acceptance among survivors of trauma that their...