It’s Not Fair

It’s Not Fair

5 Reasons Recovery is Not Fair & 3 Things You Can Do About It During the past ten years, I have been on a recovery journey full of miracles and pain which surpassed my greatest imagination.  And over the past three years, I have worked with many survivors of...
What If …

What If …

When it comes to trauma recovery, I often hear concerns from my clients about how change will manifest for them.  Change is scary for survivors.  During the traumatic years, change was never good for us.  Needless to say, the idea of purposefully instilling inner...
Backing Up the Head with the Heart

Backing Up the Head with the Heart

As a trauma survivor, I have spent the majority of my life in my head.  My body was not a safe place to reside.  It held all the emotions and pain of my childhood.  It held all the reminders of my past trauma.  So I dissociated and stayed in my head.  It was safe in...
Mother’s Day … Again

Mother’s Day … Again

It’s almost Mother’s Day again.  It comes every year without fail.  I try not to play the “society says we celebrate this today” game, but it is hard when I grew up in an environment where conforming was a life or death situation.  And even if I attempted to ignore...