The Imaginary Foe

The Imaginary Foe

We often talk about triggers as if they are catastrophic events which leave us (and everyone in our vicinity) reeling from the retraumatization.  Many believe that a trigger has to be something so closely linked to our trauma there is no mistaking the pattern in...
The Essential Drives

The Essential Drives

Love, Peace and Purpose This week, I achieved a huge milestone in my life.  I have wanted to be an author since I published my first poem in a kid’s magazine at 8 years old.  Monday, I released my first book.  When I started this journey, I thought the hard part would...
What If …

What If …

When it comes to trauma recovery, I often hear concerns from my clients about how change will manifest for them.  Change is scary for survivors.  During the traumatic years, change was never good for us.  Needless to say, the idea of purposefully instilling inner...
The Definition of Me

The Definition of Me

There are thousands of reasons our inner parts avoid this recovery work.  It’s scary because the emotions feel impossible to survive.  It’s scary because they are ashamed of their past and don’t want to be rejected yet again.  It’s scary because they don’t want to get...