The Isolator: Navigating Relationships after Trauma

The Isolator: Navigating Relationships after Trauma

I’ve been working with some intense battles in my system lately.  I have a tendency to focus on my defenders when I am feeling blocked and I often discuss them in my writing.  To be fair, the defender fears of recovery and change are not the only inner obstacles we...
Changing Relational Patterns

Changing Relational Patterns

4 Reasons We Struggle in Relationship & 4 Things We Can Do About It Let’s face it.  Relational trauma leads to less-than-stellar relational patterns.  And while some healing must happen in relationship, re-traumatization is almost guaranteed.  So as I mentioned in...