5 Ways Groups Heal

5 Ways Groups Heal

I have been coaching trauma survivors for a few years and I love it.  I love it so much, I have been known to jump around my office and cheer for the amazing progress a client is making.  I love it so much, I struggle to find balance because I always want to check in...
The Shutdown Switch

The Shutdown Switch

I refer to the end of the calendar year as the Trifecta.  I don’t know why I call it a Trifecta because it isn’t.  There are actually four major events in October, November and December creating chaos in this single mother’s life.  Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas...
We Are ALL  Narcissists

We Are ALL Narcissists

This isn’t going to be one of those easy-to-read blog posts.  Honestly, most of my writing is difficult to read.  But today I am going to focus on our selfishness.  It is easy to talk about the selfishness of others, but I would not be doing my job if I did...
I’m Better Than Them

I’m Better Than Them

I have learned one important thing about the recovery process.  It is never boring.  Just when I think I have pieced together my past, I will get a memory back leading me to question how I could possibly forget it.  Just when I think I am entering a calm emotional...
The Bad Days

The Bad Days

Like all survivors, I have good days and I have bad days.  Unlike popular opinion regarding emotions and moods, PTSD isn’t always something I can control with my thinking.  My inner parts believe they are living in the past and they are sharing those past emotions...