A Messy World

A Messy World

Protecting my children has been one of my most important goals over the past 11 years.  I have made it clear to my family and all other abusers that my children are not available to them.  I have eliminated all contact with abusers in our lives.  This required me to...
It’s Not Fair

It’s Not Fair

5 Reasons Recovery is Not Fair & 3 Things You Can Do About It During the past ten years, I have been on a recovery journey full of miracles and pain which surpassed my greatest imagination.  And over the past three years, I have worked with many survivors of...
“Jacked Up”

“Jacked Up”

I have mentioned before that I am not in charge of this journey.  There is something comforting and completely terrifying about that.  In reality, my ego self (adult self) could never be in charge of this journey.  I would not know how to do it or where to start. ...
Go Through the Fear

Go Through the Fear

Most people don’t like fear. When it rises up, the first instinct is to move away from it or whatever is causing it. And that makes sense. Our instincts were designed to do just that. We keep ourselves safe by listening to our fear and backing away from danger. But...
I Reject The Scarcity Lie

I Reject The Scarcity Lie

I Am Enough.  There Is Enough. Survivors of abuse often live a life plagued with scarcity. We were taught at a young age that we weren’t enough, there wasn’t enough and life would not provide enough for us in the future. When we suffer financial abuse or trafficking,...