The Mini Chronicles

The Mini Chronicles

I have had a hell of a week.  I packed up our belongings while throwing half of them away, loaded the other half in a POD, put 6 months of essentials in a rental SUV (quite a big one), and drove 12 hours to a furnished house I had never seen before (other than the...
The Evidence Doesn’t Add Up

The Evidence Doesn’t Add Up

Contrary to what we may believe about our inner parts, they are committed to an evidence-based life.  They work hard to draw their conclusions about the world based on as many real-life experiences as possible.  This started very early in childhood and continues to...
Changing Relational Patterns

Changing Relational Patterns

4 Reasons We Struggle in Relationship & 4 Things We Can Do About It Let’s face it.  Relational trauma leads to less-than-stellar relational patterns.  And while some healing must happen in relationship, re-traumatization is almost guaranteed.  So as I mentioned in...